Grace B., United States

How did it start?

To be honest, I was careless. I had never had a mammogram in my life until my breast cancer diagnosis. This was shocking and traumatizing for me and my family because I had no pain or the usual 'textbook' breast cancer symptoms whatsoever. A fall in my bathroom landed me in the hospital and which, unfortunately, led to my diagnosis.

What was the biggest challenge(s) in your experience with cancer?

When you are hit with a cancer diagnosis and a late-stage one for that matter, your whole life turns upside down. I had sleepless nights weeks before I received the call to see my doctor and oncologist about my pathology results. However, I was blessed, still am, to have a great multidisciplinary team and to have successfully responded to treatment, but survivorship is a whole different ballgame. The aftermath of surgery and the rehabilitation process took a huge toll on me. The longterm side effects of chemotherapy and radiation I still deal with and must manage till this day.

What helped you most?

My faith, mental resilience, family support system, and my healthcare team got me through. I am so thankful to God.

Since then, I have written a book, IMPOSSICANT about my experience. From diagnosis to survivorship, my journey wasn't easy, but it shaped the person I am today. Writing my memoir gave me the chance to honor every step I took and every experience I had.

I have morphed into a global cancer advocate and global health diplomat and stood on stages educating the public about my cancer experience and its realities. I help dispel myths and reduce fear-based stigma, especially for patients from very conservative backgrounds.

I also host my cancer talkshow on YouTube, Cancer Convos with Grace B, where I host experts and stakeholders in the healthcare ecosystem to share their valid insights and expertise and we have received amazing feedback from my audience and community.

As Lead Volunteer and Legislative Ambassador for the American Cancer Society, I constantly speak with my Local, State, and Federal lawmakers about our cancer priorities.

What was your experience of the healthcare system?

I was fortunate to have been respected and heard but I represent so many who are less fortunate. When we sit in the infusion room receiving chemotherapy with other patients from different backgrounds, WE are ONE VOICE and so whenever I am at a table, I represent their needs and speak on their behalf, and those who are no more with us.

What is your message of hope or words of advice?

My message for the healthcare system is this. Patient Navigation is so critical for us as patients as we move through the full continuum of care. Now, I ask, how can this resource be covered by insurance to strengthen the quality of care for us patients and our families? Something should be done about this. The healthcare system and insurance providers should do something to drive better outcomes for people with cancer.

My message for the amazing individual facing cancer is this.
Please, be proactive and stay on top of your bloodwork and screenings. Know that:

✨ Healing is gradual.
✨ You must learn to go through the process.
✨ Be kind to yourself.

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